The are many benefits to life in this “rural” mini-city of Cili, but the two that have made my life here most comfortable are the quality of the natural environment and the welcoming nature of the locals. Compared to Changsha or the cloud of smog some call Beijing, Cili is a minor paradise – today, like the majority of days over the past couple of weeks, it is sunny with clear blue skies, birds chirping away, and ants doing their thing. Such beautiful weather is prime for wandering around either on foot or by bicycle, and this leads to the second perk of life here. Any lengthy journey outside of the school campus nearly always results in some friendly encounter with someone who is at first just curious about the total 帅哥 walking/riding by or sitting in their restaurant. Often, random people will pay for my meals after we simply exchange a few pleasantries, and sometimes, longer-term relationships are forged.
A couple days ago, I was riding my bike around some areas I inexplicably had yet to check out. This bike, which my school liaison generously lent me, is awesome, including a car-volume-level warning beeper thing, a speedometer and a pedometer, a couple sizable pouches, and a secure lock. But the bike is not the point. But it is still awesome. Anyways, I was about to ride along a stretch of pavement in between the large Lishui River and a row of apartments, when I get a phone call. It’s the older sister of the mother of the 3rd-grade girl I tutor (I met the mother and her daughter in a fruit store), and she’d like me to begin to teach her five-year-old some simple vocab, too, in order to “让她喜欢英语” (“make her like English”). I didn’t understand some of what she said, and I struggled to communicate my response, fumbling a little more than usual through some Chinese.
Nearby where I had stopped, a middle-aged woman was gathering some vegetables from a garden I assume she keeps. From a couple glances in her direction, I saw that she was rather amused by my sub-par Mandarin, or perhaps instead by a white guy speaking Chinese, or, most likely, both. After finishing my conversation with the sister of the mother of the daughter I tutor (SOT-MOT-DIT?), I continued on my way along the river. The pavement ended in about thirty seconds. So I turned around, and as I again passed the woman foraging in her garden, I stopped, either prompted by a comment from her or my own desire to explain the situation, to let her know that I was the foreign teacher at Cili Yizhong, and that the SOT-MOT-DIT was interested in me teaching her daughter.
Well, this brief pause was long enough to draw in her husband and a couple other neighbors to join in the conversation. The husband, whom I later learned is named 唐汇刚 (Tang Huigang), invited me into their home to see some photographs he happened to have of him with the foreign teachers from three years ago. Not shady, because this is China. He did not fail to deliver, and soon I was on the third floor of his apartment/home looking at pictures of him with the two foreigners I knew to be my predecessors. The wife invited me to eat lunch, but because I had just eaten and was developing a minor headache, I declined (meaning I had to say “No, thanks”, and explain my reasons about ten times). But I still hung around to talk a bit with 唐汇刚 and his little daughter, and discovered that they enjoyed fishing. I learned this in the context of them inviting me to go fishing with them that afternoon, but I once again declined because, as mentioned, I was feeling under the weather. However, we exchanged numbers and agreed to plans for fishing this weekend. I have only been fishing once very briefly at a fifth-grade camp (or boy scouts camp?), and have always wanted to go fishing for real. I can tell that this family is pretty serious about it, given some pictures 唐汇刚 showed me, and I am very much excited about this opportunity.
They say it takes a village to raise a foreigner, and that if you teach a man to fish he’ll eat a lot of fish. This week has supported these sayings, and it is because of the bike lent to me, the mother and daughter I met at a fruit store, and the friendliness of a couple strangers that this weekend I’ll most likely be heading out to catch me some trout… or bass… or whatever.